What happens at home

When you go to school at home:

• You wake up after the school bus picks the neighborhood kids up and eat an unrushed breakfast.
• You may get dressed for the day or stay in your pajamas- it kind of depends on whether or not you're going to see anybody.
• You spend a couple of hours learning new spelling words, reading, answering questions, writing, practicing math skills, hearing history stories, and performing science experiments.
• You may or not have to run errands with mom or tag along to doctor appointments.
• You eat lunch with the family- sometimes in the kitchen, sometimes on the back porch, sometimes at a friend's house, sometimes at a restaurant, and sometimes at the park- then take another hour to rest.
• You visit Mom's friends sometimes and make ones of your own.
• You take mini-vacations when family comes into town.
• You wait for your neighborhood friends to come home from school.
• You play, and sometimes argue- with your brother.
• You play games on the computer.
• You sit with your brother at the library story time, and play along too.
• You clean your room, pick up the playroom, feed the dog, and fetch diapers.
• You wait for Mom to feed the baby, change the baby, wash the dishes, do the laundry, talk on the phone, pack the car, and fix the lunch.
• You daydream and draw pictures and make up stories.
• You have been dubbed the assistant mommy, because you help Mom with almost everything.

We don't do a lot of sitting.  We do a lot of life.

Dueling poems

Bella and I read poems about insects today: caterpillars, bees, wasps...

Then we completed an activity where we're given the first line of a poem and must come up with the second.  We both tried it and shared our results with each other.  Bella's rhymes were an attempt to be funny, of course :-)

Here are our insect poems:

Bella:
Beetles like to munch and munch.
They even like Captain Crunch.

Mom:
Beetles like to munch and munch.
...The leaves of roses they eat for lunch.

Bella:

Ants work hard all through the day.
They even like to lay on the bay.

Mom:
Ants work hard all through the day.
...For their play is work and work is play.

Bella:
Crickets chirp in the dark of the night.
They might even fight at the same old night.

Mom:
Crickets chirp in the dark of the night.
...Music sounds sweeter in the moonlight.

Bella:
Grasshopper up in the air so high!
I will miss you my little guy.

Mom:
Grasshopper up in the air so high!
...Down again, then up.  Jump, then fly.

If this was a contest for the silliest poet, the second grader certainly wins the prize!

Art History

I don't know if I've shared this before, but our favorite subject right now is History.  We recently finished with the ancient Roman Empire and are onto the Byzantine.  When you were in 2nd grade, did you go there?  My daughter is learning about religions, art, and world events through this current curriculum.  While I am still thinking about switching after this year, we will miss this subject.  I'll have to make up for it somehow.

For example, Bella learned about the Hagia Sophia and the beautiful mosaics that decorate it's interior walls.  So we decided to make our own mosaics after we finished this lesson.  The kids loved it!

Burning Energy to Gain Focus

I've been slowly reading through this book.  In doing so, I've discovered a common cure for the "crazies" when it comes to achieving better focus on tasks- exercise.  This may not come as a surprise for many, but my daughter isn't like a lot of girls who could sit at home all day and paint.  A sports activity each week may not be enough for her.  She's jumping off couches and stairs, cartwheeling in the middle of the family room, and expressively waving her arms in conversation at the dinner table.  

In other words, she has a LOT of energy to burn!

Since we try to do the most of our schooling in the mornings, I've been working on a plan to get her in a happy place before she hits the frustration point and quits.  Yoga and karate have been two methods I've heard that help kids with extra energy or attention deficits.  So I went to the library this week and picked up some children's dvds.

Both Bella & Brody got so into it!

We'll see if my experiment works in the weeks ahead...

The Learning Curve

As with most new ventures, there's a period of time that it takes for us to figure things out and adjust.  So it's been over these past four months with homeschooling.  Some days I feel so certain of what I'm accomplishing, and yet there are a lot of moments in between when I second-guess my decisions, the curriculum, our schedule, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera.

For now, I'm hanging in there.  I'm trying out new methods to keep us on task and to keep Bella's attention.

One of the more interesting, difficult, and rewarding aspect of homeschooling has been what I'm learning about my daughter.  I can see the conversations and struggles directing her to a more mature role in her education.

Bella works best when there are absolutely no distractions, but she's having to learn that that isn't always possible.  It's ideal.  However, there are doorbells, little brothers, and her own daydreaming. I've been pushing her to get as many lessons done in the morning to give her momentum.  By lunchtime, she's spacing out, so I call it a day. 

The hard thing for me, is that I also have to stick to this routine.  With doctor's appointments, phone calls, housework, and the like, it's so easy for me to get distracted and blow off a lesson.  But I'm also learning here.  It's imperative that I stick to it!  We're so much happier when we can see all we've completed that day!

In addition, I'm still figuring out what motivates Bella.  What incentives work for her?  This week, we decided to do 15 lessons, so she can get a pedicure with Mommy.  So far, it's working!  Ten lessons down, and we have two more days to complete them.  But I can't do this every week.  I'll have to think about some less pricey rewards for her putting her nose to the grindstone :-)  She is really into girl time lately, so it shouldn't be too hard.  Maybe a trip to get frozen yogurt or pick out a new book at Barnes & Noble? 

Art-ish

I think my frustration has finally surfaced with our current homeschooling curriculum.  I have been largely uninspired because I have very little say in what we learn and how we do it.  As I said in my previous post, while the material is good, I am way too stressed about meeting their guidelines.  It just isn't my style (as lame as that may sound).

I haven't even known how to blog about it lately.

 

Eye, aye, I want to call the shots, take a field trip, and work on projects with my 2nd grader, and I want all that to count. 

All this hit home when Bella asked me, "Mom, why don't we do any art projects like I did when I was in school?" 

Ouch. 

Taking her out of public school has only changed her environment (which is good, but is not enough).  We are still doing what the state tells us is important, and I'm not comfortable with that.

Therefore, I will very shortly be pulling out of the state-funded homeschool curriculum and going off the radar for a while.  I'm looking forward to planning subjects, activities, and themes that we can dive as deep as we want into, before moving to the next thing.  Including my 3-year-old in the fun of learning will be another element of our plans.

So after the horrific realization that we weren't planning enough art in our life, we read a book by Peter  H. Reynolds.  If you haven't read any of his work, I also recommend the book Ish.  Love them!

In The Dot, we let the story inspire us to paint a picture, and then sign it.  You never know where something as simple as a dot can take you!

We headed outside for some back porch painting.  Brody skipped the dots and only added them AFTER he painted "Batman" twice. Bella took her time mixing colors and getting creative with her dots before she moved onto other subjects.

View their finished work in our toy room art gallery!

Choosing the right curriculum

Since I'm new on this journey into homeschooling, I'm still trying to figure out what "fits" my daughter's learning style and our family's daily rhythms.  I originally chose a curriculum that I thought would help us start off in an organized manner, but I've found myself feeling quite like I did about public school expectations.  The content of our current curriculum is great, but the requirements make me want to rebel.  I'm still reporting to someone and having to do things they're way, which makes me feel that I still have little control.

Instead of diving into a subject and spending as much time there as we like, I am constantly hurrying us along to check off the assignment and complete some impersonal daily agenda.  I'm skipping fun stuff, like field trips and art projects, in order to maintain what they deem as "progress."

And so I'm returning to the valley of prayer and research as I consider other avenues for learning.  I was really pushing to stick with this curriculum for an entire school year, but one experienced homeschooler advised me to "go with that gut feeling" concerning my kids.

I am looking for options that involve less sitting and obviously aren't chained down by the state's standards.  Afterall, if we really step back and check out the ratings, the state isn't doing so great.  My daughter loves stories, writing, and art.  She wants to cook more and take piano lessons, and I haven't had a lot of time to squeeze these things into our week so far.  With that being said, we still need structure and shouldn't avoid any subject.  I just think we can do addition problems in 15 minutes, without boring Bella out of her mind with more and more instruction time on it.

What curriculums are you familiar with?  Please, give me your opinions and your suggestions.